A couple of days ago there was a mini poll on the front page of the local newspaper. The question was asked: Was 2010 a good year or a bad year for you? 57% said it was a good year, 43% answered bad.
That set me thinking about my year. As I look back it was definitely a good year. But then I don't have any bad years to look back upon. Perhaps it's all in my perspective. The following list of happenings from the year came to mind, not necessarily in any order of importance.
1. My Love and I went on a 5 day cruise in January. It was so relaxing, refreshing and renewing that we have decided to repeat the experience on a 7 day version this year.
2. My Mother endured an operation last summer. Her period of recuperation was much longer than anticipated, but we are all grateful that she is doing well now. This whole experience did not strengthen our confidence in the medical system.
3. My Love's brother, Mike, died very suddenly. His death reminded us all of how precious life is, and how important it is to live each moment to the fullest. Since Mike was a perfect example of that reality, he had no regrets, we have none for him, even though his presence is missed greatly.
4. My Love's Father continues his slow, steady decline in the nursing home. His gentle, loving acceptance of his reality is an inspiration to all of us in the midst of a difficult situation. Also, the faith of My Love's Mother is a true sign of God's presence. The opportunity to support and care for both of them has been a blessing to both My Love and me.
5. My 50th Class Reunion in September was an enjoyable and fun experience. It was a bit of a surprise to be surrounded with so many "old" people! But they could really dance.
6. Having a steady job with a good company in these rocky economic times is a true cause for gratitude. The opportunity to work with good people and assist people in need only adds to the blessing.
7. Going home to our little Shack in the woods is like having our own private retreat house. How refreshing and renewing it is to be able to soak up the gifts of nature by simply stepping outdoors or looking out the windows.
8. Two opportunities to visit with our friends, Gail and Marilyn, in person were definite highlights. Once they came to our Shack, the second time we spent time with them at the home of their daughter. The treasure of this friendship is truly a gift.
9. The loving support and constant encouragement of My Love for me makes all things possible, and everything joyful. The gift of her presence in my life cannot be overestimated. Nor can I be adequately thankful.
10. Finally it is the gift of faith which puts a positive spin on all life's happenings. This it is which enables me to join with the 57% above who declared this past year as a good one. For it is not what happens to us that is important, only what we do with what happens to us. "If God is for us, who can be against us" (Romans 8:31).
May your New Year 2011 be filled with blessings that you recognize. May God be present in ways that you can accept.
